a showcase of my love affair with the written word…
Sometimes the future doesn’t feel exciting.It feels blurry.Unfinished.Like a question you don’t have the energy to answer yet. If you’re in a season of change,this part is familiar. when change isn’t a brave decision We often talk about change like it’s a bold, intentional choice. A leap. A reinvention. A dramatic before-and-after moment. But some… Continue reading Embracing Change When The Future Feels Uncertain
(travel isn’t escape — it’s perspective) why travel isn’t an escape People often think travel is about escape:New places. New photos.A temporary personality upgrade. But when you’re rebuilding your life, travel doesn’t let you run. It gives you perspective. You leave your routines.Your familiar chaos.Your “same old” self. And suddenly, you notice things. Like how… Continue reading what travel teaches you when you’re rebuilding your life
I used to edit my work like my worth depended on it. One more tweak.One more reread.One more round of fixing things only I would notice. I told myself it was professionalism.What it really was? Fear. Fear of being judged.Fear of being misunderstood.Fear of not being “good enough” yet. Perfectionism is sneaky like that.It disguises… Continue reading I stopped chasing perfect and things got easier
Change is never easy, especially when it’s not the kind you choose. For me, one of the hardest transitions I had to face was separation. Here in the Philippines, where divorce doesn’t legally exist, “moving on” isn’t as simple as walking away. On paper, you’re still bound. In reality, you’re barely surviving. personal story of… Continue reading Embracing change: my guide to thriving through transitions
I don’t know about you, but when life starts throwing punches left and right, I tend to… emotionally freeze. You know that feeling? When your heart feels like it's doing the cha-cha while being squeezed by anxiety? That was me, on loop. Back then, I didn’t have a therapist or a support group. What I… Continue reading Pen, Paper, Peace: Writing Through the Chaos
There was a time when I wouldn’t hit “publish” unless everything was flawless—like, even my bullet points had to be in perfect alignment, and don’t get me started on fonts. Helvetica or bust. And then I became a copywriter. Turns out, when you write for a living, especially under deadlines, perfectionism is a luxury you… Continue reading Progress over perfection
I used to be my own harshest critic. Failure? That was me. Failed career. Failed marriage. Failed at being a decent person, too — or so I thought. Every mistake from my past would replay like a broken record in my head. I couldn’t seem to escape the feeling that my life was one big… Continue reading Thank you, next: how gratitude helped me bounce back from life’s plot twists
포기하기 전에: 절망에 빠진 사람에게 보내는 편지 (영어 버전 마지막에 번역이 있습니다) Trigger Warning: This post talks about suicide, depression, and mental health. If you're in crisis or know someone who is, please seek professional help. You are never alone. Today, I want to talk about something most people avoid—the elephant in the room that… Continue reading Before You Give Up: A Letter to the One Who Feels Hopeless
Let’s be real—change is hard. And I’m not just talking about the kind where you finally decide to reorganize your closet (which, for the record, I’ve been “about to do” for three years now). I mean the big, soul-shifting life transitions that knock the wind out of you and make you question your very existence… Continue reading Embracing Change: My Guide to Thriving Through Transitions
Freelancing might not be for me.I’m not good enough.What if they hate the copy I write?The competition is so stiff—what could I possibly bring to the table? Yep, that’s me, telling myself all of the limiting beliefs that keep me from moving on and being forever stuck. We’ve all been there—life throws curveballs, deadlines loom,… Continue reading Finding Calm Amid Freelance Chaos
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