a showcase of my love affair with the written word…
Some people swear by this phrase: Fake it till you make it. They say it like it’s a universal solution.Like confidence is something you can borrow.Like healing is something you can pretend your way through. Not good enough for the job?Fake it till you make it. Not accepted in certain circles?Fake it till you make… Continue reading Don’t fake it. faith it.
Change is never easy, especially when it’s not the kind you choose. For me, one of the hardest transitions I had to face was separation. Here in the Philippines, where divorce doesn’t legally exist, “moving on” isn’t as simple as walking away. On paper, you’re still bound. In reality, you’re barely surviving. personal story of… Continue reading Embracing change: my guide to thriving through transitions
Life isn’t meant to be taken seriously. I mean, honestly—whoever comes out of it alive, right? If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: humor makes all of our crosses bearable and our worries lighter. Without it, I’d probably look ten years older with stress lines as deep as the Grand Canyon. why humor matters… Continue reading Laugh lines and punchlines: finding joy in the mundane
I used to be that writer.The one who couldn’t hit “send” until I’d edited a draft for the 27th time.The one who’d stare at a sentence, convinced it could be tighter, funnier, smarter—until I killed the entire flow. Grammatical errors? Typos? Even a misplaced comma could send me spiraling.(Spoiler alert: sometimes, I’d edit so much… Continue reading Progress over perfection: why I finally gave myself a break
I don’t know about you, but when life starts throwing punches left and right, I tend to… emotionally freeze. You know that feeling? When your heart feels like it's doing the cha-cha while being squeezed by anxiety? That was me, on loop. Back then, I didn’t have a therapist or a support group. What I… Continue reading Pen, Paper, Peace: Writing Through the Chaos
There was a time when I wouldn’t hit “publish” unless everything was flawless—like, even my bullet points had to be in perfect alignment, and don’t get me started on fonts. Helvetica or bust. And then I became a copywriter. Turns out, when you write for a living, especially under deadlines, perfectionism is a luxury you… Continue reading Progress over perfection: why I finally gave myself a break
Let’s get this out of the way first:My writing depends heavily on one thing.... my mood. When I’m writing for a client, I put on my pro hat.I do my research. I ask questions. I stick to briefs.The goal is clear: deliver results. But when I write for myself—especially my personal blogs—it’s a completely different… Continue reading what sparks my creativity: a peek into my process
Marketing used to scare me. Just the word alone made me imagine sleepless nights, spreadsheets, and shouting into the void of social media hoping someone—anyone—would click “like.” But as a writer, blogger, and proud online wanderer, I’ve come to embrace marketing as less of a monster and more like that quirky friend who insists on… Continue reading Marketing Without the Migraine: 5 Chill Ways to Promote Your Passion Online
(Or at least helped me avoid yelling at my neighbor’s dog again) Why Journaling Matters to Me I never thought I’d say this, but journaling kind of saved me. Not in a dramatic, "this is a Nicholas Sparks novel" kind of way. But more like, journaling has become my sacred little escape hatch when life… Continue reading Pen to Paper: How Journaling Saved My Sanity
Freelancing might not be for me.I’m not good enough.What if they hate the copy I write?The competition is so stiff—what could I possibly bring to the table? Yep, that’s me, telling myself all of the limiting beliefs that keep me from moving on and being forever stuck. We’ve all been there—life throws curveballs, deadlines loom,… Continue reading Finding Calm Amid Freelance Chaos
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