Lately, my days are a whirlwind of tasks, but amidst all the hustle, there’s one constant that never changes: my morning cup of coffee. It’s my calm before the storm—a tiny, comforting ritual that’s become more than just a way to wake up.
Over time, I’ve realized that my coffee mug—yes, that trusty old “pink” mug I’ve had forever—has a lot to teach me, especially about patience. I mean, who would’ve thought, right? But hear me out.
You see, when I pour that first cup of coffee, I have to wait for it to cool down. It’s too hot to drink right away, so I’m forced to pause for a minute. In those moments of waiting, I’ve learned something important: patience isn’t about sitting around doing nothing. It’s about allowing things to unfold at their own pace. And trust me, as someone who’s constantly on the go, that’s a hard lesson to grasp.
My coffee mug, in all its ceramic wisdom, reminds me to take a step back. Just like the coffee, life doesn’t always come at the perfect temperature. Sometimes, we have to wait for things to settle, for the timing to be right, for that perfect sip.
I used to think that patience was about tolerating delays, but now I see it as something more. It’s about accepting that not everything is in my control—whether it’s my coffee cooling down, waiting for an opportunity to fall into place, or even watching my kids grow up at their own pace (they’re not going to stay my little babies forever 😢).
And let me tell you, patience is not my strong quality. I mean, who else checks the microwave five times in the span of 30 seconds? 🙋♀️ But with my coffee mug as my silent teacher, I’ve started to see patience as an act of trust. Trusting that things will work out when they’re supposed to. That, no matter how much we rush or push, some things need time to brew—just like that perfect cup of coffee.
Now, I’m not saying I’ve mastered this whole patience thing. Far from it. But I’m learning. Every time I pour that hot coffee and resist the urge to gulp it down, I’m reminded that there’s value in waiting. Life, like a good cup of coffee, is best enjoyed slowly—savoring each moment, each lesson, even the ones we didn’t expect.
So, the next time you’re sitting with your morning coffee (or tea, if that’s your thing), take a moment. Let it sit. Let yourself sit. Take a deep breath and trust that, in time, things will cool down, clarity will come, and the moment you’ve been waiting for will finally be just right.
Who knew my coffee mug could be so wise?
What about you? Do you have a daily object that’s taught you something unexpected? Let me know in the comments below. And hey, don’t forget to savor your next cup—it just might have a lesson waiting for you.
Until next time, remember: slow down, trust the process, and don’t burn your tongue! 😄
Ettenyl Writes 